Satisfy your women Give her an Orgasm

Here is how NOT to climax before she does…

Terry Wilson — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 15:12:34 +0000

Performance anxiety is commonly misinterpreted as “stage fright”,
but there is a reason for it. It has been stated, that “the whole
world is a stage” and we are willing or unwilling participants in
it. Performing artists like musicians, singers, actors and speakers
have faced this enemy during their careers and braved them one way
or another.

But this enemy is very common in human relationships too and
particularly ferocious when it comes to sex. Men face this enemy
every time they are about to have sex and there is one reason which
makes this anxiety almost unbearable: will I last long enough to
satisfy my partner?

How to Make Sure You Don’t Orgasm Before She Does

1. Prolong the foreplay.

Instead of plowing away once the sex really gets going, take your
time to caress your partner and explore her body with your other
extremities. While the male organ seems to be the only arousal
point on a man’s body, women have these sensitive areas all over
the place.

Her reaction to your probing will give you a fairly good idea where
they are. While she approaches ecstasy with your every successful
exploration, you not only learn your partner’s secret areas, but
also preserve your own stamina for the final battle.

2. Encourage her to speak up and tell you what turns her on.

Conversation is a very important part of the whole sexual
experience. This time though, you want to encourage her to tell you
what REALLY turns her on. Clever sexual innuendos during pre-sex
time and gentle inquiries during sex not only give you vital
information, but stimulate your partner’s fantasy, which makes her
hornier, which makes her reach her orgasm faster! Just before you
reach your own…

3. Oral sex

Spicing things up by pleasuring or “heating up” your partner with
oral stimulation gives you time to breath. While orally satisfying
a woman is requiring a keen ear to your partner’s needs and leads,
it may be the last resort for your premature curtain call. It is
not a solution to “take a break” during sex. While it may help you,
you probably will have to start with your partner from square one.
Switching to oral sex gives you the needed break without
interrupting your partner’s pleasure cruise.

4. Know your own body.

Japanese Geisha’s are known to be able to bring a man to ecstasy
without having him prematurely end the fun. If they can do that,
you can too IF you know your own body.

Knowing your body’s primary arousal points can help you last longer
if you avoid… for now. Another trick is to squeeze the base of
your shaft right before the Big Ben strikes ten on the top and the
bottom side. If you do it right, it stops you cold.

A good physical condition is also helpful in enduring the physical
task of keeping it up longer; do not underestimate your muscles’
participation in your endurance quest. Ask your partner to assist
you in this self-discovery and sex will never get boring.

5. An honest and open relationship.

Tell your partner about your anxiety and let her know that you want
to last longer to give her more pleasure. While this is most of the
time not possible when you are in bed for the first time with a new
partner, once you are an item and sex gets to be a somewhat regular
pastime, honesty is the way to go.

6. If it all fails, do it again!

Leonardo Da Vinci’s first painting was not the Mona Lisa and even
when he was painting the masterpiece he did not get it right the
first time. Multiple layers have been discovered by x-ray
technology procedures, documenting that even the Master himself
needed several tries to get it right.

By exploring your own limits and practicing as often as you both
feel like will lead to more confidence, more pleasure, more mutual
acceptance and trust, and ultimately more endurance and better sex
for both of you.

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Missing something to spice up your lovemaking?

Terry Wilson — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 03:15:55 +0000

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify
orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is by
having prolonged foreplay?

Oh yea..

1. PROLONG YOUR FOREPLAY

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your
sexual experience because it gives you time to
build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work?
It’s just human nature. Think about a big event in
your life.

Whether it be a party, a holiday, or a major movie
launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10
times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next
time you spend some time under the sheets, make a
conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.

Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run
your fingers along their skin and gaze lovingly
into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the
greater the experience for both of you. And if you
want to feel the magic even more then…

2. TRY NEW THINGS WITH A “TWIST”

Now don’t get me wrong here, I’m not talking about
JUST trying a new lovemaking position, tip,
technique or even location. While these things
would definitely spice things up, you can make your
experience even more fulfilling, simply by using a
little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new techniquepack a
picnic and head to a beautiful park for the day.
And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? Going on dates like
these helps to bring back the magic that made you
fall in love in the first place.

3. PLAY BEDROOM GAMES

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the
best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire
lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely
fun and have a lot of ‘replay value,’ but they
actually accomplish BOTH the other tips at the same
time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…

1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and
interesting way
2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar
tips and moves, you’ll be using them in new
scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create
your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a
sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just
want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t
matter. Simply get excited and unleash some
creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience,
remember there’s no better way than playful game
that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying
new things.

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Different TYPES of orgasms

Terry Wilson — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 00:49:35 +0000

Did you know that women can have several DIFFERENT
TYPES of orgasms?

That’s right.

Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail”
of all the female orgasms is achieved with the
G-spot.

But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her
G-spot is the hard part! Here’s an A-to-Z on
everything you need to know…

1. How to find the G-spot

First of all, the G-spot is actually a zone, rather
than an actual ‘spot.’ The G-spot is located about
2 inches inside the vagina on the topside. (On the
underside of her stomach.)

You’ll know when you’ve found it because it feels
like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth
just behind your front teeth.

2. How should you stimulate it?

While most men would love to satisfy their ladies
with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea.

Why?

Because it depends on factors like the position,
her level of arousal, and penis and vaginal shape
and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest
way to reach orgasm with the most chance of
success.

3. Important: Before stimulating the G-spot

In most cases, women need to have their clitoris
stimulated before stimulating the G-spot. But once
it’s fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too
sensitive for direct contact. Ask your lady.
Otherwise, the G-spot may feel dry and
uncomfortable. After this point, you can move onto
the G-spot.

4. The best positions to stimulate the G-spot

To really stimulate the G-spot, you’ll need to be
in a position that gives you great easy access to
work your magic. Here are two suggestions: 1) Your
lady lies on her back while you lie next to her,
using your stronger arm. 2) She sits in
doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure
her from behind. Actually, if you want even more
passion and excitement, try changing from one
position to another over the course of your
stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should
pleasure it.

5. How to stimulate the G-spot with this technique

The motion you want to use is the “come over here”
gesture, using your fingers. Keep in mind that the
G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means,
in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder
than the clitoris. Start by massaging it lightly
and work your way up to a point she finds
incredibly satisfying.

6. How to tell if she’s enjoying it

First of all, remember that the best feeling will
vary for every woman. Alternate between two very
slight movements or spots to find what she likes
best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing
or when she firmly grips you.

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all about the backdoor…

Terry Wilson — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:37:32 +0000

Depending on the person, it is the greatest fantasy
or the worst turn-off. Some women run in fear at
the thought, while some practically beg for it.

There are men who will do anything to get in the
backdoor, and others who couldn’t imagine putting
it in the poop shoot (FYI, not even all gay men
like anal). If you’re one that wants to see what
all the fuss is about, here is a step-by-step guide
to making it a pleasurable, or at least tolerable,
experience for both. Warning: this is a high-risk
activity.

1. Lube it up…a lot!

Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its
own lubrication. Use a water based lubricant. You
can get something flavored if you want to put it on
her before you stick your tongue in there. However,
never, EVER attempt anal sex without lubrication.
It will cause tearing in her anus, not to mention a
lot of pain.

2. Relax!

Have her take some deep breaths. Perhaps you can
give her a massage first to loosen her up. If she
is a little ball of tension, it causes the
sphincter to tighten. If that’s tight, you’ll never
get in.

3. Slip a finger in.

Start small, especially if this is her first time.
Meaning, use your pinky. Once you’re all lubed up,
glide it in and out slowly and gently to get her
used to insertion. Next try your ring finger.
Really work it out. Insert it, swivel around,
tickle. The more time you can spend the better. If
she can’t handle your finger, she sure as hell
won’t be able to handle your penis. That is, and I
hope for your sake, if your penis is larger than
your digits.

4. Now you’re ready.

Don’t go jabbing your member straight into the
no-no hole. You will be immediately kicked out of
bed, maybe forever. Particularly amongst anal
virgins, this needs to be gradual. Tease the anus a
bit, and then slide in just the head. Pull out, and
then slide it in a little deeper. Keep doing it
until you can comfortable get it all the way in.
Don’t add speed or pressure until she is ready for
it. Well, now you can take it from here…

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10 tips to give women an unforgettable orgasm…

Terry Wilson — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 19:06:22 +0000

Most Women Prefer This ONE Thing Over Intercourse.
What Is It?

Can you imagine going YEARS without coming?
Would drive you crazy, right?

Sadly, this is the reality for many women.

Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she’ll
reach climax, including the secret to multiple
orgasms:

1. Start outside the bedroom – Want to increase the
chances she’ll orgasm? When was the last time you
surprised her with a little drawing, letter or
flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or
not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women
on because love and lovemaking are interconnected
in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can
bet-your-bottom-dollar you’ll be doing more than
just eating dinner when she walks in the door!

2. Relax her – It’s very hard for women to orgasm if
they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage.
Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away
the tension.

3. Ignore the vagina – Did you know that prolonged
foreplay actually increases the chances of her
coming? That’s right. By kissing, caressing and
touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual
tension and often the anticipation will be very
powerful.

4. Change your focus – If you focus all your attention
on the woman first, you’ll make love to her much
more passionately. Think about it! If you’ve
finished first and decide to help her come, you
won’t have the enthusiasm and passion that’s needed
to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Tip to last longer – Of course the first step to
help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best
way I’ve found to not come is: Penetrate as normal
and when you feel like you’re about to come, simply
move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a
hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside
again. Now continue pleasuring.

6. Don’t use lubricants – Women have a natural
lubricant that fills the vagina when they’re turned
on. By using a product substitute, you’re only
fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll
instantly know if things are working; but with
them, you can never be sure.

7. Never too much clitoris – Did you know that once
you’ve stimulated the clitoris for some time, a
little thing called the clitoral hood will actually
come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from
further direct stimulation? (And no, I’m not making
this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully
stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next,
whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

8. Find and stimulate the G spot – The G-spot is a
zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is
located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the
topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There
are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With
your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with
a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

9. Use the best position – Not all love positions are
made equal. The best one for women is the reverse
missionary (woman on top). This is probably the
easiest position for a woman to climax because she
can control the friction to her clitoris and/or
G-spot.

10. Give her oral sex The single best way to help a
woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by
going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I
didn’t believe it, countless studies have been done
to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much
more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask what she likes,
and mix it up with lots of different movements!
However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve
endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything
there is to know before poking your tongue around
there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even
worse, spoil the mood.

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So there you have it – 10 tips you can start using
right away to give women the most earth-shattering
experience of their lives.

7 “emergency” tips to last longer tonight

Terry Wilson — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:51:29 +0000

Hi!

If you want to last longer in bed, you need to address the root

causes that are causing you to finish faster than you would like.

It usually takes a couple weeks of practice to really get full
control, but most guys start to see results within a few short
days.

In the meantime, you also might want a few “emergency” tips that
can help you see a difference immediately (e.g. TONIGHT).

So here are some quick suggestions.

#1. Get in a practice round

Ejaculating before the “big event” can improve your stamina.
Ideally you’d want to do this 30 to 90 minutes beforehand. This
works because it helps to get the nerves out. Your body won’t be
quite as responsive and on edge.

#2. Wear a condom

There are a few types of condoms on the market – such as “Climax
Control” by Trojan – which have special ingredients that can help
you last longer. So this is a nice addition to your toolbox if
you’re in a pinch.

In my experience, wearing any type of condom does help to dull the
sensation and help you last a bit longer, but these fancy ones are
even more helpful.

#3. Go crazy with lube

Using extra lubricant can also help you last longer because the
extra lube make everything less sensitive.

#4. Start off slow

Don’t go crazy right out of the gates. Keep it slow, keep your
arousal in check, and you’ll last longer. Keep that in mind.

#5. Go to the bathroom beforehand

A full bladder can put pressure on relevant muscles (prostrate,
seminal vesicles, perineal muscles) and increase the chances of an
early finish.

#6. Switch up your positions

The key here is to switch positions just as you feel like you are
about ready to finish. The pause in the action can help you keep it
going. During this break in the action, you can also try to get in
a “squeeze” for a few seconds, which helps many men.

#7. And, as always… focus on your breathing

I come back to this point a lot, but it’s for a good reason.
Focusing on my breathing is the one tip that I used to see initial
results myself, so I swear by it.

These tips should give you the extra mileage you need

Orgasm’s number one enemy…

Terry Wilson — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:41:09 +0000

STRESS!

Yes, you heard me correctly. Stress in the number one factor that
will inhibit any woman’s ability to orgasm.

Hopefully you understand by now that leading a woman to orgasm
requires guiding BOTH her body (physical) and mind (mental) to
orgasm, however stress is like a poison that will prevent any
attempt at getting her to the blissful state of body shaking climax
that her body is craving.

Stress leads to tension in the body which restricts blood flow and
the flow of endorphins which are essential for achieving orgasm,
especially squirting orgasms.

Stress and anxiety also release nasty chemicals like Adrenaline and
Cortisol which act like an “anti-orgasm” cocktail that will wreak
havoc on her physically and mentally.

On top of that, stress will also hinder her ability to let her mind
go and be in the moment.

Letting go mentally is one of the biggest hurdles most women have
that keep them from full body orgasms and if her brain is racing
with stressful thoughts about all her problems or insecurities the
last thing that is going to happen for her is an orgasm.

If your goal is to give her ground breaking orgasms you need to
understand this and eliminate stress as a factor so she can
completely enjoy her time alone with you.

Next time you are going to be intimate with her do the following…

1. Take control and lead her in the bedroom.

It’s no secret that women want a leader in the bedroom. Her time
alone with you should be an “escape” from the stresses of the outside
world. Women want to be with a man that they can surrender themselves
to and if she trusts you to lead her in the bedroom she will let go
completely.

2. Create a stress free intimate environment.

Dim the lights or lights some candles. Turn on some relaxing
sensual music. Create a clean, relaxed, distraction free environment that
instantly invites her to relax upon entering.

3. Give her a quick massage before you begin.

Massage is perfect for relieving tension in the body. It also
increases Nitric Oxide which relaxes the blood vessels and increases
blood flow to all parts of the body. Massage is perfect for giving
her time to become deeply relaxed and out of her head. This is the
perfect “in the moment” mindset she needs to be in in order to
achieve orgasm.

4. Once she’s relaxed roll her onto her back and stimulate her
using the “Bullhorn” technique that I demonstrate in the G Spot
Module of The Female Orgasm Blueprint.

Make sure she continues to relax. Her reaction might be to tense
her body and her breathing may become shallow.

Keep her relaxed and tell her to only concentrate on taking slow
deep breathes as you continue to stimulate her all the way to orgasm.

The Art of Kissing

Terry Wilson — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:37:12 +0000

Today, we’re going to talk about the many ways couples can kiss each other during foreplay. It’s funny how we seem to take kissing for granted or how easily we can fall into a ‘routine’ with kissing.

One of my subscribers has written me sometime bask complaining that each time she and her husband kiss, there seems to be a ‘time limit’ and all-too-familiar routine that they follow. It goes like this: gentle kissing, followed by about 5 minutes of torrid kissing, and then intercourse!

She said that although she liked having sex with her husband it was becoming like a well-rehearsed routine… help!

Kissing is an Art

One of the best ways to prolong foreplay is to indulge in the many ways you and your partner can kiss each other. Here are a few tips for you.

The Bent Kiss is the type of kiss that’s meant for ‘deep tongue penetration’. It requires one partner to be taller or be at an elevated height than the other. For couples with differing heights, no problem but for couples of equal heights, try kissing on the stairs or while one of you is sitting on the table or sink. The objective is to have one bending over the other for maximum tongue playing.

The Upper Lip Kiss is when you kiss the upper lip of your partner, making your partner focus on your lower lip. This type of kiss allows for a different type of sensation and oh yes, a little sucking of the lips is allowed too!

The Upside-Down Kiss is literally kissing each other while upside-down. Don’t worry; you don’t need any form of acrobatics here. For example, initiate foreplay while your partner is watching TV. Touch his/her shoulders from behind the couch, give him/her a hug, bend over his/her head and start the kiss!

I just gave you two pointers here. Firstly, let your partner know you’re behind him/her! Think about it. How would you react if there was this big head appearing in your line of vision all of a sudden! Secondly, proceed gently, the ‘hug’ part lets your partner know you’re in a ‘tender, loving place’ and because he/she knows this, the kiss you give will be more welcome.

Also, do time your upside-down kiss well! There’s no point in initiating foreplay during the championship of the Super Bowl. You’re setting yourself up badly and you know it! Men, if you know she’s REALLY into Oprah, now is not the time for you to initiate this either.

Kiss and Lick (a.k.a. tongue bathing) is when you ensure that you kiss and lick your partner in ‘equal portions’. I’ve always said that many of us do not lick enough! So when you feel that your partner wants to immediately move on to lovemaking, delay it by engaging in some licking. Be sure to make the change subtle and to alternate between kissing and licking.

The Awakening Kiss is the kiss you want to do if you want to initiate foreplay in the morning or whenever your partner is sleeping. Personally, I call it the “Sleeping Beauty Kiss” because basically you start kissing your partner gently while he/she is still asleep. Don’t make the kiss too wet or too aggressive. Remember, you want your partner to awaken to ‘gentle, sensual pleasures’ and not to a rough assault.

Chocolate Kisses is by far one of my favorites. It is as simple as it sounds, pop a piece of chocolate in your mouth, melt it a bit and when it’s soft and gooey… go for the kiss! You can do some variations of this depending on what you and your partner love to eat. For example, peanut butter is good for most people as well as candy bars. Just be sure it’s something your partner loves to east as well!

There you go. Add these kiss variations into your foreplay repertoire and your partner will surely be surprised, delighted and excited by all these NEW things that are going on in your relationship.

Happy Kissing!

A close look

Terry Wilson — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 02:07:13 +0000

G-Spot Stimulation Video

Terry Wilson — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 22:06:11 +0000